LOL, no worries. (And, interested to hear your theory! I don't think there's much correlation in POV-choice but I think you can see stuff in *how* kinky slash is written. Like, when I or some of my sub friends write from domm/me POVs and they go ON AND ON AND ON about how pretty and sexy and brave and perfect the sub is :) And obvs are totes awesome in-control dom/mes even in their own heads, lol.

V good explanation, btw! And that's how I'd understood it, but I'm so not-up on kink terms that I wasn't sure (especially since slash pople often use them intercheangeably, but slash /= kink despite all the overlap).

I think on balance I'm only slightly more bottom than top. I do like to do as well as be done unto, with bonus points for being told what to do :)