I read slash, femmeslash (when I can find it-Trek has little femmeslash in it-aren't enough female characters without genderswitch which I do love but I digress) and het. I enjoy reading relationship and usually the sex just feels like a progression or it can be that you can see their dynamic in that situation. That's not to say I don't read a PWP now again.
As a sweeping generalisation I generally don't relate to the people in sex scenes. With slash I just enjoy it, with femmeslash I occasionally think about what it would be like to be in a similar situation. I never relate to het though. I always feel like you can't measure up to the girl. It's always described like it's so easy.
With kink I can relate to either party. I'm a bit of a switch like that :P Although I do like hurt/comfort and relate to the one being comforted. I like being taken care of.
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I read slash, femmeslash (when I can find it-Trek has little femmeslash in it-aren't enough female characters without genderswitch which I do love but I digress) and het. I enjoy reading relationship and usually the sex just feels like a progression or it can be that you can see their dynamic in that situation. That's not to say I don't read a PWP now again.
As a sweeping generalisation I generally don't relate to the people in sex scenes. With slash I just enjoy it, with femmeslash I occasionally think about what it would be like to be in a similar situation. I never relate to het though. I always feel like you can't measure up to the girl. It's always described like it's so easy.
With kink I can relate to either party. I'm a bit of a switch like that :P Although I do like hurt/comfort and relate to the one being comforted. I like being taken care of.