Thanks! Idk, I never would've judged someone else for making that choice re: Mum's birthday (and not risking isolating her further, even if now I'm much less worried about possible abuse) but I also... well I'm glad I've made it clear where I stand, anyway. I do think there should be social consequences for this kind of thing. I mean there were grandchildren of survivors AT that fucking party.
his views are not okay or just 'a difference of opinion', they're actively dangerous :'(
100%. This is where describing them as "offensive views", as my sister did, is so milquetoast as to be an issue in itself.
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Thanks! Idk, I never would've judged someone else for making that choice re: Mum's birthday (and not risking isolating her further, even if now I'm much less worried about possible abuse) but I also... well I'm glad I've made it clear where I stand, anyway. I do think there should be social consequences for this kind of thing. I mean there were grandchildren of survivors AT that fucking party.
his views are not okay or just 'a difference of opinion', they're actively dangerous :'(
100%. This is where describing them as "offensive views", as my sister did, is so milquetoast as to be an issue in itself.