Benefits of being queer

You know, I do think being queer has done wonders for my confidence. Not directly, but – one big thing is that I’m fat, which puts me outside of ~traditional beauty standards. I’m rarely self-conscious about this, but it is a thing, and certainly having put on weight over Christmas it’s a thing. ( cut for nsfw, although not ~pornographic, musings on how my attraction to women has helped my personal body confidence )